There’s more to sexuality than having sex. Thoughts, feelings and relationships can also be part of your sexuality. You might be attracted to someone because she or he is cute, funny, smart, exciting, different or for some other reason that you can’t explain.People experience their sexuality in different ways, including: having a crush on a teacher; having fantasies about someone famous (like a singer or an actor); dating someone.You might start to have sexual feelings before you are ready to do anything about them (like holding hands, kissing, or having sex).
Take your time figuring out what is comfortable and natural for you. If you don’t feel ready to have sex, you are not alone. In fact, most teens do not have sex until they are out of high school.
Do You Ever Wonder ...
- Am I normal?
- Does any one else have sexual feelings like I do?
- How can I deal with the feelings I have?
- Are people going to judge me if I am different?
If you have questions and concerns about sexuality, you are not alone. Everybody has questions. Nobody has all the answers.